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| Questions: What to do about the in-laws visiting 6 months? My husband and I just had a baby boy a couple months back and he will most likely be the only offspring we will have ever have due to medical reasons. We learned our baby has been diagnosed with a serious condition for the rest of his life.As it was very stressful early on, I am now faced with a different type of stress. Husband's parents are from India and are visiting/ staying at our home for six months. They are nice, but speak a different language, and come from a different culture and generation. The mother in law volunteered to cook while I tend to the five month old baby; however they constantly want to spend every second of time with him, even when the baby is under my supervision (by the way they also have other grand kids back home).Here's the problem, I feel I have no privacy in my own home and literally have to hide in the nursery to avoid them and so I can spend some one on one time with my own baby. I'm a stay at home mom and want to take care of the baby the best way I can and enjoy his precious milestones. My husband goes to work mornings and comes back evenings. He is a great father and the man I fell madly in love with. Things have changed a lot ever since his parent's visit. I understand he misses them, but he spends all his spare time with them, unfortunately leaving very little time to talk. We no longer watch tv/movies together like we once did, or ever go out. This is adding more tension to our marriage.On top of that, I just found out my in laws missed out on raising my husband and his sibling when they were babies and instead handed their kids over to their grandparents. So basically my in laws have zero experience of raising kids and missed out on a very important stage of being a parent. And now, it seems they are trying to compensate for that loss and relive parenting through my baby boy. I find this little disturbing and unfair because they chose to skip out of parenthood because it was an inconvenience to them during that time and now this explains their non-cour |
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